Good morning. I am finding that it's harder when people are nice and understanding about my grandkids moving (two weeks from today!). It's so much easier if I just ignore that it's going to happen and life goes on. And then I think about it in the privacy of myself and cry a little. Then I move on. But it's strange being on the receiving end of so much kindness and empathy. And the tears...I have a lot of them. And they can be a bit embarrassing in public since my eyes and nose swell when I do this. Maybe I'll run out of tears soon. Usually I'm the one helping. That is what I do...I help. Maybe that's what this is all about...I'm suppose to learn to receive help and kindness?? I just don't know how to do this "well". I spoke to my youngest son, Joe, last night. He thinks I should have a spiritual advisor. I don't think that's a bad idea...I'm just finding it hard to make the move to get one.
I thought of an idea for my grandkids. I hope to put together a little scrapbook with pictures for each of them about things we've done together. I can include pictures, tickets from our Amtrak train trip to KC, tickets from the Cardinals ballgame, I'll include pictures of rooms of our house where they spent so much time, one of the back yard and the park, etc. What do you think? I hope this keeps the memories alive and helps soothe a little. I've never really liked scrapbooking, but I can do this! I know this will be an adjustment for Jake, too. Ellie..not so much since she's so young. What else? Oh yes...I'm going to take some favorite toys and send them with the kids. Is that a good idea? I've got two weeks...what else should I be doing? Oh...enjoying the moments with the kids and simply staying in the present moment. If you have any other suggestions, I'd love to hear them. Thanks friends. See you soon!
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